The Nigerian Traditional Ceremony

Written By Melissa Macrides

We are so excited to celebrate our marriage through two meaningful ceremonies that honor both of our backgrounds and families. Since many of our guests may be experiencing a Nigerian traditional wedding for the first time, we wanted to share a little about what to expect!

Day One: Traditional Yoruba Engagement Ceremony

Our first celebration will be a traditional Yoruba wedding ceremony, also known as an Engagement Ceremony or Introduction Ceremony. In Yoruba culture, marriage is not just the union of two people, but the joining of two families and communities.

This ceremony is joyful, vibrant, symbolic, and full of tradition. You can expect:

  • Music, dancing, and lots of celebration

  • Colorful traditional attire

  • Family introductions and blessings

  • Cultural rituals and symbolic exchanges

  • Plenty of laughter, energy, and audience participation!

One of the most meaningful parts of the ceremony is the formal introduction between families, where elders play an important role in offering prayers, guidance, and blessings for the couple’s future together.

You may also notice traditions such as:

  • The groom and his family formally greeting the bride’s family

  • Symbolic gifts and offerings

  • Traditional Yoruba prayers and expressions

  • Moments where guests are encouraged to cheer, dance, and celebrate alongside us

A Fun Tradition: “Spraying”

One tradition you may see during the celebration is called “spraying.” During special dances, guests gently place or “spray” money onto the couple as a way of celebrating, honoring, and wishing prosperity and happiness on the newlyweds.

If you would like to participate, small bills are traditionally used (many guests bring $1 bills), but please know this is completely optional. We mainly want everyone to enjoy the experience, celebrate with us, and have fun!

Attire

Guests are encouraged to dress in festive, colorful formalwear. Nigerian weddings are known for being lively and fashionable celebrations, so feel free to embrace bold colors and joyful attire if you'd like!

Melissa Macrides